A journey through the transition into university.
Eugenia De Coss (she/her) // Contributor
Jordan Richert (he/him) // Crew Illustrator
Dear Capilano University,
My high school years have become a previous chapter of my life. I realized that I prefer being in smaller social groups, I had nice teachers, the cafeteria wasn’t too crowded, and I found a seat most of the time. It was a generally enjoyable experience.
It was nothing more than a step towards university.
I was finally able to choose my courses. I already knew that I have never enjoyed history, chemistry, or physics courses. My professional goals have always been more focused on writing books and stories. University allowed me more independence towards my future goals and decisions with some risk-taking, being a free student without harsh judgement. I started with some simpler courses, and worked my way up to more difficult ones.
When the weather is sunny and warm enough, I like to sit in a chair outside while working on my computer. Sometimes, I sit with friends outside under a refreshing shadow, usually chatting or eating. I occasionally enjoy attending events organized by the student union, especially if there are snacks and low-activity games. I usually stay until I get bored or want to study again.
The holiday parties are the ones I am always excited about.
University can bring mixed feelings. I feel excited to get to know people who share my interest and learning in my courses. Once I found the perfect amount of courses I could handle, I got to enjoy both the academic aspects as well as socializing at events around campus–the perfect balance of responsibility and fun. Better to take school at your own limits and capacities.
From time to time, the student union organizes events that support and entertain students. One of my favorites is the massage day, where professionals come to offer their services. I always go early to sign up and get a spot despite the ten dollar charge. It’s one of the best ways to relax on campus. I am a dog lover, so I always look forward to therapy dogs day. Those dogs always find a way to make me laugh and smile. The dogs enjoy doing tricks and constant pets from the students. Such events help me relax and have some fun.
Looking back at my journey at Capilano, I was a bit naïve regarding the difficulty of most courses and the importance of teamwork. I found deep and meaningful connections with faculty members, including instructors who saw potential in me during challenging times. I had to put in more effort and be aware of my strengths, especially during the most unexpected challenges I ever faced. My own experiences at university taught me how to value failure, hard work and self-care.
Failure is a necessary and common part of learning and the best teacher, even when it is full of shame and embarrassment. A bad grade on an exam is a learning experience. I have failed several times on my journey and was determined to look beyond a failed grade when trying something new in my quest to find meaning.
Through my years in post-secondary education, I developed an understanding of the role of resilience, self-compassion, and self-awareness. I chose to be myself and accept others.
